Saturday, December 22, 2012

Surviving

I will be the first to say I never would have made it as a pioneer. Face it, I've been a city girl all my life.  Or rather I was a city girl, now I'm a country girl, sorta.  Until this week it's been an easy adjustment.  

This week we had our first major snow...okay a full blown blizzard. Once I got home I didn't want to leave.  Once Reno got home (and it took him forever) I didn't want him to leave.  It was a safe at home, snowy but safe.  Someone should have pulled me aside discussed this with me.  Or given me a "how to survive winter weather in the country" class for a housewarming present. 

In one storm I've learned which roads to stay off of, that a front end loader is a godsend, that you can get stuck on flat ground, that a towing chain is a good investment.  I learned when the drifts are really high the dogs can walk right over the top of the fence.  I am learning that a few good neighbors in the country can mean more than a whole block of neighbors in the city.  And I've learned it is humbling to be the one who knows nothing...and even more humbling to have a neighbor repeatedly come to your assistance. What a blessing that they are so gracious and willing.  It's what neighbors do, I am told. It's a lesson I am learning anew. 

I admit today was a weepy day, frankly I wanted to go home. I'll let you figure out which home I wanted to go to.  For the life of me I couldn't find my big girl panties.  Had I been a pioneer, my husband would have tossed me out of the covered wagon not far out of town.  For the good the wagon train, I'm sure. It may have been a wise decision.

But luckily, there was no wagon train involved.  I survived, we survived with a little help from our friends.  Life is like that, a learning process.  If you are lucky like we are, help is there for the asking.  It's how we survive and thrive.